
Board Members (from left to right): Leo Arel (BM 2020-2024), Sharon Smith, Jon VanGuilder, Dawn Castles, Marty Riordan
Friends of Hyder Family Hospice House
Our Mission
is to continue and support the valuable care for those with life-limiting illnesses as well as the long-standing vision to have in-patient hospice services available at the
Hyder Family
Hospice House.
Our Vision
is to assist Hyder Family Hospice House to remain a viable, outstanding facility that offers support and care for the entire family including patients, their families, and Hyder Family Hospice House staff.Friends of Hyder Family Hospice House was formed in July 2014 after the April 2014
announcement of the closure of Hyder Family Hospice House, 285 County Farm Road, Dover, NH. The founding members had experienced first hand the
incredible facility and services at Hyder Family Hospice House and were
determined to offer support to help keep this beautiful place available to others.
Friends of Hyder Family Hospice made known its support to the Strafford County
Commissioners and Delegates and had reached over 850 people on Facebook
who were willing to support this in-patient hospice facility.
In July 2015, Hyder Family Hospice House re-opened and is in full operation today.
Over the years, we have enhanced the working environment for the hard-working staff and have
assisted patients in many various ways. We have used your generous donations to help maintain and beautify the grounds
and gardens. We have also purchased and installed bird feeders throughout the property which we keep filled so that
the birds come to greet the staff and patients.
Board of Directors

Dawn Castles, Chair

Jon VanGuilder, Vice-Chair

Sharon Smith, Secretary

Marty Riordan, Treasurer

Tim Graff
Dawn began her service work in hospice when she was in high school where she first found her passion for the mission of hospice. She has spent her career in health care serving seniors in nursing home, hospice care and at home. She began her volunteer work with Hyder Family Hospice when a neighbor sent an email out to the neighborhood sharing that that local hospice house was reopening. With the reopening, they needed help cleaning and organizing. Those couple of hours turned into the privilege to serve on the all-volunteer Friends of Hyder Family Hospice Board.
Jon retired from the US Air Force in 2010 after serving thirty active duty years. He then remained engaged with the Air Force as a pilot instructor for the flight simulator at Pease Air National Guard Base until 2024. Jon has been volunteering at Hyder Family Hospice House since 2015 primarily volunteering with indoor activities, and special projects in the surrounding gardens and grounds. He joined the Friends of Hyder Family Hospice House Board of Director in 2020 desiring to serve the Hyder Family Hospice House residents, patient families, and facility staff in all areas of support.
Sharon lives in Rochester with her husband, Dale, of 43 years spanning his career in the Air Force living in Mississippi, Michigan and the United Kingdom. She raised two adult children who now have families of their own including three young grandchildren. Sharon has worked in the legal profession for over 25 years.
Marty is a familiar face to many residents of Dover, NH from his 28 years behind the counter at Marty’s Friendly Market, almost 20 years as its owner. After the sale of his business in 2000, he started his second career in sales for Tri-City Dodge in Somersworth, NH, retiring in 2017. Volunteering in the community has always been important to Marty, serving as President of the Dover Sports Hall of Fame for many years, assisting in various ministries at the Parish of the Assumption, and volunteering at the Dover Friendly Kitchen. When asked to serve on the Friends of Hyder House Board in 2023, Marty welcomed the opportunity to serve the patients, staff and other volunteers in the hospice community.
Tim is a 30-year veteran of the U.S. Air Force, where he completed his military career as a pilot with the Air National Guard at Pease Air National Guard Base. He currently works as a simulator instructor for Flight Safety Defense. A lifelong advocate for public service, Tim has dedicated over 20 years to supporting New Hampshire Scouting. He also served for many years as a board member and president of Seacoast Mental Health in Portsmouth and continues to support the VFW and American Legion. Tim and his wife, Mary, raised their six children in Barrington, where they actively support the local food pantry in Barrington through fresh egg donations and fundraising. Tim’s interests include gardening, farming, aviation, hiking, and working with youth. He looks forward to supporting the critical mission of hospice care at Hyder House.
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